There is a definite difference between being judgmental and holding other people accountable, and it irritates me to no end when we fail to distinguish the difference, because there is a huge difference. Judging someone is when you yell at them for not comforming to your beliefs when they don't believe the same thing. Therefore, you cannot hold someone accountable for something that they do not believe to be true.

Holding someone accountable can only happen if the second party is of the same faith as you and does something contrary to the teachings of that particular religion. Even if the person holding the other person accountable struggles with and sometimes fails to ovecome their struggle, that doesn't mean that their holding the other person accountable is invalid if they're really trying to overcome it. There is also the point of 'acceptance is different than tolerance' but that's another story for another day.

And, I'm so tired of people arguing over things about Christianity that honestly don't matter. Who cares what race God is or what gender God is? Can't we just assume that He is everything perfect and divine and just leave it at that? Does it really matter whether God is male or female? He is still omniscient, and omnipotent.

What really matters is the way that we conduct ourselves and treat our fellow humans. People should just be able to tell that Christians are Christians without having to be told. They should sense something different. The word 'holy' means to be 'set apart', literally. As you all probably know by now, there is a song for everything.

Purify my heart,
let me be as gold and precious silver.
Purify my heart,
let me be as gold, pure gold.

(Chorus)
Refiner's fire,
my heart's one desire
is to be�holy;
set apart for You, Lord.
I choose to be holy;
set apart for You, my Master,
ready to do Your will.

Purify my heart,
cleanse me from within
and make me holy.
Purify my heart,
cleanse me from my sin, deep within.

I can't believe the hearts of some people. There really are those out there that give away too much kindness. Thank you for showing me.

She loves her mama's lemonade,
Hates the sound that goodbyes make.
She prays one day she'll find someone to need her.
She swears that there's no difference,
Between the lies and compliments.
It's all the same if everybody leaves her.

And every magazine tells her she's not good enough,
The pictures that she's seen make her cry.

And she would change everything, everything just ask her.
Caught in the in-between, a beautiful disaster,
And she just needs someone to take her home.

She's giving boys what they want, tries to act so nonchalant,
Afraid they'll see that she's lost her direction.
She never stays the same for long,
Assuming that she'll get it wrong.
Perfect only in her imperfections.

She's not a drama queen,
She doesn't want to feel this way, only seventeen, but tired

She would change everything for happy ever after.
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Caught in the in between, a beautiful disaster,
But she just needs someone to take her home.

'Cause she's just the way she is, but no ones told her that's OK.

And she would change everything, everything just ask her.
Caught in the in-between, a beautiful disaster,

And she would change everything for happy ever after.
Caught in the in-between, a beautiful disaster,

But she just needs someone to take her home
And she just needs someone to take her home.